Reader Question:
i prefer my personal ex in which he knows it, but he also knows that i am online dating immediately. Me personally and my personal ex understand every little thing about each other, and we have a spark each time we see both. I just desire him to cease acting amusing to me and day my friends.
-Danna H. (Colorado)
Professional’s Response:
Hi Danna,
I’m a little perplexed. You continue to just like your ex in which he knows it, but you wish him going out with your pals? Am I lacking some thing? It sounds such as the spark between you and your ex is live and well. You need to allow the commitment another try?
Both of you currently “know everything about both,” generally there won’t be some of that “beginning of an union” awkwardness. Today, I’m not sure why both of you broke up to start with or just how long you used to be with each other, but if you don’t split considering an irreparable problem (cheating, different existence objectives, etc.), then I state go for it. Ask him or her to coffee-and simply tell him everything you told me. If the spark can there be, after that your connection is something that should be revisited.
Let me know how it goes.
Best of luck!
Kara